Indeed, these are challenging times, but there is still much to be thankful for. Most importantly, I am thankful for your strength and resilience, your steadfastness in the face of adversity, and our collective determination to persevere, reorganize, strategize, and maintain our flag, our spirits, and our nation's honor, despite its occasional failings. I am also grateful for the constitution that supports our nation and the improvements and amendments it has experienced since its inception.
Stay strong, protect yourself as best as you can, and aim to be the best version of yourself. Make sure your actions and behavior honor you, your chosen family, and your military service, whether current or past. Be a beacon of light for others. Engage in acts of charity, kindness, and introspection. Remember, you have a supportive network of friends and family around you.
On a personal note: I now reside in eastern Kentucky. My mother, brother, sister, and cousin require my assistance. Since I'm retired and my children are adults with families of their own, I've taken on the role of caregiver for my Kentucky family. I cook meals, shop for them, do their laundry, and try to keep the house tidy. For Thanksgiving, my middle sister and I are collaborating to prepare the meal.
However, here's the most significant part: before they reached a point where they struggled to care for themselves, they didn't want me around, but now they need me. I must admit, I'm very grateful to be needed and that I am mentally and otherwise in a position to assist, although I wish the circumstances were different. And no, they're not supportive, but like you, I am strong and resilient. I can manage. Besides, it benefits no one if I were to impose who I am upon them: I don't quibble over pronouns, names, words, etc. It's simply not worth it for them or me. I live openly and honestly as myself at all times, yet their words do not affect me. That's their issue. I keep my head held high as should you.
May the holidays be good for you.
Big hugs, dear friend!
Cassandra
I am so bummed you aren't in Bama any more, but so glad you can go and be with your family! Best wishes and stay in touch.
I was sad when you disappeared from the scene, but I understand when duty calls. All veterans do. You take good care, Cassie, and don't forget about you. I certainly won't as I figure out a way to move beyond this mess of a place. Happy Holidays!
You are truly a special person.l! Your parents are very lucky to have you as their daughter. There will certainly be a place in Heaven for you.